In Korean society, patriarchal norms still heavily shape the father-son relationship, often creating emotional distance or invisible walls between two generations. As a result, both fathers and sons tend to be cautious in how they behave and what they express with each other.

Through monthly group meetings, Abi-bu provides a safe, supportive environment where fathers and sons can engage in open, guilt- and judgment-free conversations. These discussions explore the different ways men choose to embody fatherhood.

We believe that through these conversations, both fathers and sons can begin to understand the intentions behind each other's words and actions, which are often misunderstood. By building stronger, more empathetic connections, Abi-bu hopes to challenge the idea that there is only one way to be a father.

Fathers, in turn, reflect on how their words and actions influence their sons, and learn ways to better understand and support their sons' needs. Together, through mutual learning and growth, fathers and sons in Korea can begin to reshape the paradigms of fatherhood.

Sons come to Abi-bu to think seriously about the kind of men they want to become, in a space that is both fun and meaningful.

• Time to reflect on what kind of person they want to become
• A foundation in core virtues and practical ways to live them out
• Character development through active, engaging activities
• Friendships with peers who are also working on becoming better men
• Meaningful time spent with their father in a relaxed, enjoyable setting

Fathers come to Abi-bu to deepen their understanding of their sons and of fatherhood itself, alongside other men navigating the same terrain.

• Deeper understanding of the virtues they want to model for their sons
• Practical ways to help their son grow into those virtues naturally
• Opportunities to have meaningful conversations about deeper topics together
• Connection with other fathers doing the same work

Abi-bu meets monthly, primarily online. Sessions are structured conversations designed to draw out honest, thoughtful perspectives on fatherhood. The format is focused and interview-style, with pre-planned discussion topics guiding each meeting.